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bluidkiti · 12-01-2013, 12:43 PM

It’s Not Surprising!

John 7:40-44: “Thus the people were divided because of Jesus. Some wanted to seize him…” (vv.43-44).

Many people loved Jesus, others loathed him. But this did not stop Jesus from fulfilling his purpose in life. He seemed unsurprised by it all. Although he cared about others, their opinions did not alter his plans.

Among the misbeliefs guaranteed to make us miserable is the following: “In order to be happy, I must be loved by everybody.” Some of us believe we must work hard and long to make everyone love and appreciate us. Consequently, we may “give in” even though to do so conflicts with our values. Or we may try to control others’ reactions to us by saying the appropriate words, and doing just the right thing. Sometimes we are amazed that someone else does not react as we do.

Not everyone loved and agreed with Jesus; not all will love and agree with us. This is not surprising news. By fulfilling our God-given purposes in life, we can live satisfying and worthwhile lives, regardless of the reaction of those around us. We do not have to be loved and appreciated by everyone to be happy.

Lord, it’s a relief to know
that I can be who you made me to be
even though others may not agree with me.
Please help me to be courageous and consistent.

Joan C. Webb

12-01-2013, 12:43 PM	#1
bluidkiti Administrator Join Date: Aug 2013 Posts: 73,853	It’s Not Surprising! It’s Not Surprising! John 7:40-44: “Thus the people were divided because of Jesus. Some wanted to seize him…” (vv.43-44). Many people loved Jesus, others loathed him. But this did not stop Jesus from fulfilling his purpose in life. He seemed unsurprised by it all. Although he cared about others, their opinions did not alter his plans. Among the misbeliefs guaranteed to make us miserable is the following: “In order to be happy, I must be loved by everybody.” Some of us believe we must work hard and long to make everyone love and appreciate us. Consequently, we may “give in” even though to do so conflicts with our values. Or we may try to control others’ reactions to us by saying the appropriate words, and doing just the right thing. Sometimes we are amazed that someone else does not react as we do. Not everyone loved and agreed with Jesus; not all will love and agree with us. This is not surprising news. By fulfilling our God-given purposes in life, we can live satisfying and worthwhile lives, regardless of the reaction of those around us. We do not have to be loved and appreciated by everyone to be happy. Lord, it’s a relief to know that I can be who you made me to be even though others may not agree with me. Please help me to be courageous and consistent. Joan C. Webb __________________ "No matter what you have done up to this moment, you get 24 brand-new hours to spend every single day." --Brian Tracy AA gives us an opportunity to recreate ourselves, with God's help, one day at a time. --Rufus K. When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. --Franklin D. Roosevelt We stay sober and clean together - one day at a time! God says that each of us is worth loving.

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