How We Become Willing

[roverl0616]

It's only after a long road of failure that any of us even consider wanting to do something about having this problem we have. Some of us will take this road to the very end, while the rest of us try to get off as soon as we can. The difference between these two lies in our own willingness to want to do something about having this problem, nothing else. We all kept telling ourselves there's some other reason why we can't do anything about us having this problem, none of which are true, but we all just keep on telling ourselves that. What we all need is a willingness to want to do something about having this problem and all of us can get that from the fact that everyone can see that we have this problem, we're not fooling anyone but ourselves. It's awful to look at what this problem has done to us, and people can see that, and we know they can. They may not know why this has happened to us, but we do. And we think that because everything we've tried has failed that there's nothing we can do about having this problem. Recovery proves that to be wrong. There's plenty that we can do about having this problem that has worked for others that will work for us too. And all we have to do to have this happen for us, is to be willing to allow this for ourselves, and it will.