Not everyone has to go through all that it takes for all of us who are in recovery, what we all had to go through that all of us have been through, nor does everyone else have to have the same experiences that a lot of us have had, or should anybody ever have to. None of us ever wanted to go through all of what we've all been through, or do any of us ever sign up for any of this, but this doesn't change the facts for any of us, or would it do any of us any good if it did. We're all here for a reason and although none of us are even really sure what that reason might be or do we even like the fact that we're here, we're all still here. We're all on the same path that none of us would have ever chosen for ourselves and once we all found we were on this path there's nothing that any of us can do now that would change the path we're all on. There's no such thing as going back, no starting over, no re-do's from now on only way that will work for any of us so that we'll be able to get along is for us to accept being this the path. Once we can is when things will start to become easier for us. This may be the reason that we're all here to begin with so we all can learn to accept things that we can't change. Who knows for sure, one thing that we all do know by now is that it didn't do any of us any good not to accept being on the path we're on. What have any of us got to lose by trying to do this just accepting that this is where we're meant to be ? We have nothing to lose nothing at all, and it won't cost any of us anything in even trying do this, and if we can try to do this we all might be able to find out the reason to why it is we're all here on this same path to begin with.