It's not all that uncommon for all of us after we see what's been going on in our life because of us having this problem that we'll all think that now that we're able to see what this is doing to us that somehow we'll all now be able to fix ourselves and we'll all want to. As difficult as it is for anyone to suffer from having this problem we're all making things even harder on ourselves when we try going it alone and think we can fix ourselves, we can't and none of us can, that's what it means to have this problem that we can't, but that doesn't stop any of us from trying to think we can. So it's okay to go ahead and see if we can as long as we're honest enough with ourselves to know when we're not able to make it we'll be okay with trying to do this. Its when we're not capable of being honest with ourselves that we'll all be headed into grave trouble in trying to do this on our own, but none of us have to because recovery can show us all how we all can do this together and when we do we all get better, and alone we all die from trying to do this on our own the choice is yours to make.