The damage that has been done to all of us that's not easy for any of us to look at will need to be seen by all of us, so that we all can begin recovery. It's only by facing this damage that we all can begin to do something about this, until we do we'll all just go on pretending there's nothing wrong, when we all know that nothing could be further from the truth than this. The reason we all pretend there's nothing wrong with any of us, is we all think we can't bear to face this, but we all can, and the way we all do face this is together. When all of us do this together is when we've all been able to get over whatever it is that none of us thought we could face. The time for all of us to do this is now once we've all found recovery because if we choose to go on not facing this now is when all of us may be doing damage to ourselves that's irreversible, and all end up succumbing to that damage.