Things come and go, time marches on, life is always happening all around us all time. We can all easily get caught up in all this, or at times think like we're missing out on all of it. Sometimes this is how we may think right after we have joined up with recovery, because of being in recovery we'll be missing out everything now. This is almost amusing that we can and do think this way, especially since nothing could to be further from the truth and the truth is before recovery for all of us life was passing us all by, and we knew it, and worst think about know this was, we knew there wasn't anything we could do about it, we didn't how to change that. What we find as we recover is the loss of knowing who we really were, and our opportunity to find out more about this, was the thing we were all constantly missing out on.