Love the last line. The three Cs helped me, I didn't cause it, I can't control it,and I can't cure it.
I thought my life main role in life was to be a fixer upper and solve the problems for others. If they would just listen to me, they would be all right. Yeah right! (Grin)
If I have to control it, it is already out of control. Control is an illusion, mostly all made up in my own mind.
I can't cure it. I don't have the power. I am powerless over people, places, and things, and that means me too, if I don't turn my day over to my Higher Power, who empowers me to do what I need to live in today, clean and sober.
I couldn't fix me, why would I think I could fix others? Why did I want to fix others? Probably because I hoped to find my own answers. If I looked at others and focused on them, then I didn't have to look at me.